2.22.2013

Coffee Date

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TGIF, friends.  I have been thinking it was Friday for most of the week, which I suppose is an indicator of how the week has gone.  Do you have a few minutes?  Let's have coffee.

If we were having coffee today...

...I would tell you that I have so much swirling around in my head right now that it's hard to get it all out sounding the way I want it to.  I really wish I had some kind of device that could record my thoughts to my computer as I'm showering or falling asleep or doing anything where I'm writing a great blog post in my head, and then when I sit down to do it, it's gone.

...I would tell you that the Internet has been dishing out a lot of food for thought this week.  Some will require their own separate posts next week.  Others I will just give a quick mention to, like this post that Paige tweeted.  Don't read it if you're easily offended though, although that's part of his point (and I'm going to be touching on that next week).  I thought it was an extremely well-written post that Americans should probably take the time to read and think about their own behavior.  I personally will be working on the part about the word "awesome".

...I would tell you that hubs was on a business trip for the middle part of the week, and it's nice to have him home.  Things feel funny when we're not all in the house together.  Coincidentally this was also vacation week for Gus's preschool, which follows the local public school schedule.  The combination of the two had us spending a lot of time with the grandparents.

...I'd tell you that I loved reading all the comments that you left this week.  They gave me a laugh and also gave me some things to think about.  I appreciate every single one of them.  I'd also apologize to those of you who hate blogs with giveaway after giveaway.  I promise it won't be like this next week.  There's only one.  And for those of you who like them, there's a giveaway next week, yay!  But seriously, I only do them when I really love the shop and I want to share them with you.  I promise they will slow down and we'll be back to our regularly scheduled programming soon.

...I'd share another post I loved this week, from Maybe Matilda.  I often feel guilty if I'm not trying to constantly fill Gus and Greta's day with fun things.  Things happen and days get busy, and sometimes, I just don't feel like sitting and reading or playing trucks or being jumped on while laying on the floor.  And that post makes me feel a little bit better about taking a breather, or sitting and reading a blog for a few minutes because I would like a little me time.

...I would tell you that my to-do list for today is longer than I likely have time for, and I hope to get as much of it done as possible.  In my head I always think I'll get a ton done, and then I never do.  It's a disappointing cycle.  So do I work harder (thus inducing the aforementioned child guilt), or make the list shorter?

...I would tell you, after all of my griping, that I really did have a good week.  How your week went this week and what do you have planned for the weekend?  Are any of you in the path of Winter Storm Q that may or may not be passing this way on Saturday night?

Linking up with Rags to Stitches

11 comments:

  1. I love these posts. And I'm usually sitting at my desk with my cup of coffee as I read them. Today I especially love the post from Maybe Matilda. A great perspective!

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  2. I would tell you AMEN about that parenting article. We don't even have kids yet and I've noticed the weird criticism going around between mothers. There is nothing wrong with a little Me Time. In fact, I think it's good for kids to learn that Mom is a person, too.

    I would also high-five you about the American article. I'm so excited to see what you say about it next week. I agreed with everything the guy said... except the part about "awesome." I don't mind that we use it differently over here! A lot of words change their definitions over time.

    I would tell you that I have a long to-do list today, too. I actually have a bit of a lull with orders, so I might use today to catch up on some blog writing and house cleaning. Wait, cancel that. I have to make stuff for a show. (It never ends!)

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    1. Aw... I mourn the loss of awesome in its 16th Century sense. :(
      It forces me to use 'awe-inspiring' when I mean to use 'awesome', which of course makes me sound like an undercover time traveler.

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  3. Lovely post Kristen. Thank you again for featuring my photo :) I too was reading this with a cup of coffee in hand.

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  4. Our week has been a little mixed up here as well. Jesse had the week off from work and I'm not used to him being here as much. It's been nice though as we've gotten out to do things we don't normally get to do during the week. But I'll be ready to get back to my routine next week :)

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  5. Reading from NY with my Kahlua Coffee in hopes that I can trick my brain into thinking it's nicer out than it is.

    I too would love a thought recorder!

    Looking forward to reading more :)

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  6. As someone who has lived in the US for only 7 years, I have an outsider's perspective, and agree with some of the things stated in that post...

    The national identity problem, for instance. I'm amazed at the fact that no one is from here.
    I've picked this subject apart with (American) friends before; I blame poor wording: someone who's never been to Italy or speaks Italian shouldn't go around saying "I'm Italian", for instance.
    I feel it's a disservice to the society that they grew in and informed them...

    Anyway! :)

    I, too, have my brightest moments while in the shower. I've been meaning to look into the 'memory palace' method, maybe it works for elusive ideas as well as it does for shopping lists?

    Merry Friday to you!

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  7. I have been noticing some recent posts about how mothers are trying to justify their behavior. Really? First off unless you are paying for my kid to survive then you have no say on how I raise them. I don't feel mother's shouldn't have to justify their behavior. There is no perfect way to raise a child and more importantly each child is different.

    I didn't like a lot of attention therefore if I had a mother that is in my face a lot there would be problems. (even though if I don't speak to her at least every 3 days I get an angry email on where have you've been. Where I'm at mom!).

    Plus.. where are your children as you write up an angry post about not spending enough time with your kids? What kind of example are you setting for your kids. It's ok to be judgmental?

    Also, I really loved the post about Americans. This is something I have become very aware of since working in Customer Support and speaking to Americans across the country. Also, after spending some time abroad both in Asia and Europe I have notice that it really has opened my eyes about our country. I mean it's still the best place on the planet to live but I really love learning about other cultures and how other people live. Other traditions. I really thought it was funny when he mentioned that there aren't Americans bout 1/4 Irish or 1/4 German people. Face it you're an American. I'm proud to be an American and I love being able to go abroad and say..hell yea I'm an American. Not, I'm half black and half Puerto Rican. True story= this guy in France thought my best friend and I were Brazilian and lying about it. Really? Why would we be speaking in such obvious American accents if we were from Brazil.

    ok..sorry for the long post. Hope your weekend is awe..I mean great!

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  8. Happy Friday! The post from Benny was very interesting and thought-provoking. I appreciate his point of view, and definitely am pondering some of his opinions. Thanks for sharing!

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  9. Visiting from Coffee Date.
    I always have amazing blog posts swirling in my head before bed, by morning I complete can't put them to words.
    I hope you have a wonderful weekend with your family.

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  10. I also wish I had a device that could record my thoughts as I'm laying in bed not sleeping or showering or whatever. That would be so perfect. Also Peter was out of town for 3 days this week too, so I was all by my lonesome. I'm sure it's very hard to suddenly be a single mom with 2 kids when you're used to having a partner. It's lucky that you have family nearby to help out.

    And I think some of the most judgmental (and hateful) criticism I've seen on the internet has come from certain SAHMs to other SAHMs. I don't understand that kind of behavior. No one is a perfect parent, and I think every mom experiences some guilt at not being perfect, even though that's not possible. I also think taking a little "me time" probably makes you feel more relaxed and balanced and happier, and therefore, probably makes you more patient and attentive to your kids.

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